心理测试：Are you too polite? 你是否过于讲礼貌?
PART Ⅰ第一部分：
Answer the following statements:
回答下列问题：
1.You try to avoid confrontations.
a.Agree
b.Disagree
1.你尽量避免与人发生冲突。
a.同意
b.不同意
2.You appear calm even when nervous.
a.Agree
b.Disgree
2.你在紧张时也显得镇定自若。
a.同意
b.不同意
3.You tend to have trouble asking for what you need.
a.Agree
b.Disagree
3.有所需求时常常难于开口。
a.同意
b.不同意
4.You often compliment people, even when you don't mean it.
a.Agree
b.Disagree
4.你甚至常言不由衷地赞美他人。
a.同意
b.不同意
5.You're very sensitive and assume others feel the same way you do.
a.Agree
b.Disagree
5.你很敏感，且以为别人和你一样。
a.同意
b.不同意
PART Ⅱ
第二部分：
How do you cope with these situations?
你如何应付以下情形?
6.When no one gets up to help you clean up after your mom's potluck1 dinner, you:
a.Finish the job alone.
b.Ask guests to pitch in2.
6.亲朋好友在你母亲家吃完饭后，没有人起身帮你收拾，你：
a.独自一人把活干完。
b.请客人一起动手。
7.The man in front of you at the movies is a loudmouth. You:
a.Move or stay put3 and try to tune him out4.
b.Ask him to be quiet.
7.看电影时，坐在你前面的人说话声音太大，你：
a.换个位置，或坐着不动，置若罔闻。
b.叫他安静点。
8.You order a burger medium-rare,but the waitress brings you one that's well-done. You:
a.Accept it. It'll be okay with lots of ketchup5.
b.Send it back.
8.你要了一份不很熟的汉堡。但女招待却端上来一份做得很熟的汉堡，你：
a.收下，多加些蕃茄酱就是了。
b.退回去。
9.When you overhear an unkind comment about your outfit, you:
a.Stew over6 it.
b.Make a crack7 so the critic knows you heard.
9.当你偶然听见别人对你的穿着说三道四时，你：
a.为此闷闷不乐。
b.说句巧妙的俏皮话，让批评者知道你听到他的话了。
10.You're in a rush when a woman with just a few items asks if she can cut in front of you in line at the market. You:
a.Wave her ahead.
b.Say," No, I'm in a rush too."
10.你急急忙忙在商场购物后排队付款时，一个只买了几样东西的妇女问可否插在你前面，你：
a.让她插在你前面。
b.对她说："不行，我也有急事。"
11.Your mate always tells the same corny8 jokes. When he asks, " Have you heard this one?" you answer:
a." I'm not sure. Tell me."
b.With the punch line9.
11.你丈夫老跟你讲同样的老掉牙的笑话，当他问你："听过这个笑话吗?"你回答说：
a."不清楚"，说给我听听。
b.把笑话中最后引人发笑的话说出来。
Mostly A's VERY POLITE
You were brought up in a home where you were taught to be nice to people and mind your manners -- and you've learned your lesson exceedingly well! People you know or have just met often remark on your genteel ways. In this day and age, when "please" and "thank you" run the risk of becoming extinct, your graciousness sets a wonderful example. Just don't sacrifice your feelings by always putting others' feelings first.
选A多的人大都属非常有礼貌型
你是在这样的家庭环境里长大的：父母都教导你要待人和善，讲究礼貌--你学得非常出色!认识你的人或刚刚认识你的人，都常常称赞你彬彬有礼的态度。在当今这个"请"和"谢谢"濒临消失的时代，你的彬彬有礼给别人树立了一个好榜样。但不要总是把别人的情感放在第一位而委屈了自己。
Mostly B's POLITELY ASSERTIVE
Although you care about your friends and relatives, you don't let people take advantage of you. When you feel you're being shortchanged10 you speak your mind. You maintain a healthy balance between caring for yourself and others, and you set limits so that you never feel overwhelmed. Friends know they can count on you to be open with them and they rely on your honesty.
选B多的人大都属有礼貌的自信型
尽管你也顾及你的亲朋好友，但你不会让别人处于优于你的地位。当你感到被亏待时，你会坦诚说出来。你关注别人，也关注自己，二者之间保持着很好的平衡，而且设有限度，因而你永远不会感到困窘。朋友们知道你会坦诚待人，故而也信赖你的诚实。
NOTES 注释:
1.potluck n.家常便饭
2.pitch in 协力，动手干
3.stay put [口]留在原地，固定不动
4.tune out [俚 ]不注意，不理睬，不过问
5.ketchup n.调味番茄酱
6.stew over 不安，担忧
7.crack[kr k]n.[俚 ]俏皮话，巧妙的回答
8.corny adj.[口]陈旧的，老一套的
9.punch line 妙句，关键语
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